Loss and Resilience

This past week has been covered in shadows. A loved one departed. We are left behind, grieving. It was a peaceful end to suffering. I will see the dawn break again, and he will not. This is part of life.

Everyone experiences grief in their lives at least once, most many times. It is painful. We see the winds rise, blowing a storm, the chaos of trees tossing from side to side, and the sky obscured by rain. Terror strikes in our hearts - but then, it is over, and we continue on, living in a landscape not unscarred.

The desert is a harsh place. Living remotely entails a special effort to connect with family in other locations around Australia. Visiting a loved one to say goodbye means travelling long distances while you carry your grief.

Desert Wildflowers (Photo credit: Geraldine Butter)

However, wildflowers grow out of the sunbaked soil, even in the desert. The rain gives them life, and they brighten up the earth. Likewise, we must hold onto the promise that everything is made beautiful in its time and that this grief will someday give way to memories of happier moments. At least we have those.

Grief is a response to a final ending. The full stop has been drawn. We have lost someone. It is impossible to bring them back. Yet, when we feel ready and venture out into the world, we find the strength to carry on, to feel. We know that we are human, with all the suffering and joy that entails.

As the end of the year approaches, take nothing for granted. One moment is all it takes for someone to slip from this life. 

Hold your loved ones tight.